How do you cope


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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:37
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With the fact that the one person you loved/liked doesn't even like you as a friend and you try and try to be good in their eyes and all they do is treat you like their worst enemy? I don't mean to be this little cry baby on boards but I just need tips. I guess. idk. Fuck it.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:39
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Just Move On With Life Things Will always Get Better :cry
  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:39
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I've had this something like this happen to me recently. I just try and forget about it and hang out with other friends. Try to find someone that is cappable of doing what that person did and more.

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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:39
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Define "be good in their eyes". How do you approach him/her?
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:39
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I hope it's not me (wary)....
Try to talk to them more, and clearly, openly. Bug them to pay attention to you and resolve what was in the past. Fix it. (hmm)
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:41
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Music usually, or find something else to distract me from the current situation. (Kind of like filling the void.)
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:41
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it'll take time but you have to make steps to move on to bigger and better things there's always that special one out there
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:41
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BooYousuck wrote:
Define "be good in their eyes". How do you approach him/her?
Just be the best you can be to show them that you are worth it.... Idk.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:45
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TheUnwanted wrote:
BooYousuck wrote:
Define "be good in their eyes". How do you approach him/her?
Just be the best you can be to show them that you are worth it.... Idk.
Okay. If you are consistently approaching this person, no offense but it might be considered annoying in their perspective. Try distancing yourself for a while, and like that other person said, listen to some music. Then maybe after a while that person will realize that they do want to be your friend, it just took some time.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:49
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I've given up. I'm at my wits end.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:51
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yodamia wrote:
Music usually, or find something else to distract me from the current situation. (Kind of like filling the void.)
I don't recommend music. Solely because a lot of people tend to lean towards music that talks about problems and sadness (depressing music) without even knowing it, and it never helps them get out of their hole.

In my experiences, I just accept it. For me, it is really easy to deal with losses and mishaps. idk why, but I sure prefer it over maybe crying over things or cutting myself :P. Who knows, maybe one day I'll be one big emotional mess overflowing with all these feelings that I locked away so deep in myself that I don't even know I locked them away? Or maybe I learned to, sorry if this sounds a little harsh, not give a fuck, and I'll continue my merry life without a care in the world. I understand truly not caring (not just saying you don't care, i mean you don't even try to not think about it; it just doesn't bother you) is difficult for some people, but if you have the not-give-a-fuck-ness, give it a try.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:54
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Thank You Guys.... As much as I have no heart. You guys are pretty awesome. :amused
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 08:59
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Actually letting her know is the only way to get a girl. She isn't just gonna ask you out.
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 09:00
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Like people on here said, just accept it and move on. This is how psychos are created. They don't move on. (Not calling you a psycho or anything.)
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  Posted on December 27, 2013 09:02
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satachiuchia wrote:
Actually letting her know is the only way to get a girl. She isn't just gonna ask you out.
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(When about to kill Sasuke) "It always hurts my heart to melt a good-looking guy… But you're going to have to die." - The Fifth Mizukage.
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